A unique alternative to the candle-lighting ceremony, this kit includes three, blank glass cylinders and a heart vase. The heart vase measures 3 1/4 x 9 inches, and each cylinder measures 7 1/2 inches tall, 1 3/4 inches in diameter. Crushed glass is sold separately. BLENDING CEREMONY To reflect the joining and blending of two lives into one, it is suggested to fill one cylinder with white crushed glass to represent the couple’s spiritual foundation and to fill the other two cylinders each with a different color crushed glass to represent the individuals. During the ceremony each color is poured into the heart vase one by one (usually the celebrant adds the white crushed glass first) and then all three are added together at the top to symbolize the union.